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Question by 4thtwin: The things you know not to bring up?
What are the things in your relationship that you know not to bring up because you know it’s gonna start an argument?

Me and my girl have been having issues lately because she feels that if we’re arguing about who’s turn it was to do the dishes she feels that since we’re already arguing it’s okay to throw my daughter’s mom name into the mix just to argue about that because she knows we haven’t settled that argument. That argument will never be settled. Why? Because my girlfriend knows that my daughter’s mom is not going away and she hates the fact that we are friends for the sake of our child. She says we talk too much. I think that as friends we talk enough. Not daily or every other day but at least once or twice a week. And it’s not always about our child. She’s 12 and is out of the diaper and formula stage. I have full custody of her.

But my girl feels that if we’re arguing about Subject C she should be able to throw in Subject A and then B because we never came to a resolution on those.

I told her that some things may never get settled but that doesn’t mean to keep bringing it up. Just accept it.

Or sometimes even when we’re not arguing we can be sitting on the bed watching TV and I’ll mention something that my daughter’s mom said or did and she’ll look at me like, “I thought you were only talking to her about your child?” It could be something simple like, “you know so-in-so drove through a big puddle of water and flooded her car.” Because a car going through a puddle is not about our child we shouldn’t be talking about it.

Plus she thinks that when ever she calls me or I have to call her and she’s around we’ve learned to talk in code. If I ask, “did the school call you about her uniforms”, she thinks that’s code for something else. But if I get up and leave the room where she can’t hear she thinks I don’t want her to hear what we’re talking about so in turn, I’m hiding still hiding something.

Am I wrong?

Best answer:

Answer by aliceperez77
Go to a therapist and both learn how to fight constructively. I would say that a fight is about what you are fighting about and other subjects can’t be brought in. She does this because she wants to hurt you and doesn’t have a very good augment about the subject.

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Daniel Farber / CBS News:
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AppleInsider:
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